A self-guided quiz to understand how desire stays engaged for you & why you get turned off
here what you need to know...
ready??
Smut makes you feel something, but real-life intimacy can feel… blank.
You keep getting pulled toward the wrong dynamic and don’t know why.
You’re tired of blaming yourself for how your body responds.
what you'll get
What keeps desire engaged for you (your “conditions”)
What shuts you down fast
Your primary + secondary pattern (most people have both)
8 questions. Self-scoring. Five desire pathways. No right answers. And book recs that fit your desire needs and triggers!
this isn't a label
If you’re single, this tends to explain more than you expect.
I’m a sex therapist, certified aromatherapist, and unapologetic advocate for women’s empowerment, with a Master’s degree in Sexology. My mission? To help women reclaim their autonomy and heal from sexual trauma using holistic, integrative methods that actually work.
By blending the science of the body with the art of aromatherapy and trauma-informed care, I guide women to reconnect with themselves—physically, emotionally, and intimately. Together, we process the wounds, rewrite the narratives, and rediscover a sense of wellness that feels true to you.
At the heart of my work is a passion for creating safe, judgment-free spaces where women can explore their desires, confront their shadows, and unapologetically embrace every part of who they are. Empowered. Whole. Unstoppable.